Do We Owe Attractiveness?
I am learning more and more that dating healthily takes someone who loves themselves, Someone who knows who they are outside of the compromises they may have done in previous relationships. Being attractive as possible for your partner seems like it will make attractiveness a chore. however, Keeping up with your needs and what you love feels like more of a personal commitment that your partner will naturally gain from. I want to also note the " As you can" part of the tweet because I know it's easy to get stuck on the "owe, which feels harsh. The " As you can" part though I feel covers off on life's low/adjusting moments. It takes into account that no one is at 100%, 100% of the time. Naturally, people want to be their best selves. Whatever that looks like for them in whatever season they're in. Striving to be our best selves in and out of a relationship will be attractive to the right person.
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